“We live in a world of deadlines and of having to get on with others, even if we don’t like them. ”
Paul Gilbert

Welcome to the third post in the recently launched “3 Good Reads for PM” series. In each post I provide a brief and personal commentary on three articles, books or web posts that, in my opinion, could help project managers and project planners in their profession.
In the choice of readings for this post I have followed the same criteria as in previous posts of the series, including a combination of books about PM methodologies, cognition & emotions. These books could be good ideas for you list to Santa!
I hope you will find this post of interest and I will continue to welcome any constructive feedback or suggestions.
The Compassionate Mind

“Compassion can be defined in many ways, but its essence is a basic kindness, with a deep awareness of the suffering of oneself and of other living things, coupled with the wish and effort to relieve it” – Paul Gilbert
The book is written by a leading clinical psychologist, world expert on depression and compassion and it is divided in two parts. The first part focuses on the science, the foundation about how our brains and minds work and why compassion matters. In this part the author guides the reader through the three interacting ’emotion regulation systems’ (the incentive/resource-focused, the non-wanting/affiliative-focused and the threats-focused) and the challenges in their regulation and balance in our daily professional and private life. The second part of the book is about a series of focused discussion, with exercises that the reader may want to try out to develop a more compassionate mind.
Why this one?
The reading of this book has been inspired by the interview with one of the PMDG blog’s kind contributors, Susan Grandfield, and the conversation that developed after that interview. The book is for sure for those who have a specific interest in psychology, but I believe that it can be a useful reading for all those who have been working in project teams and have felt sometimes emotionally and psychologically strained. In a project team, we often struggle in maintaining and channelling our positive energy. The frustration and anger build up when we feel that our points during the discussion are not taken, we feel demotivated when our input is ignored or feel very disappointed (even shameful) when we make a mistake that we understand affect the project negatively.
The book focuses on learning how to appreciate ‘the way we are able to cope, rather than mull over what we would have like to have done‘. There is an encouragement to put effort and energy in training the mind in a particular way, which is really enticing: try to understand the shadow side of the “drive and achievement”, to learn to cope with setbacks, and tune the brain to be more conducive to a calm and content mind. The books might be seen as another of those generic self-help books, but the scientific foundation is solid and presented very well. More compassion in project teams will probably strengthen relationships, bridge cultural and professional gaps, builds the individuals’ confidence, promotes resilience, physical and mental health, with longer term benefits for the team members and their organisations.
My favourite bit..
Mindfulness was a real revelation (this probably goes beyond the my interest for project management..). In the book I really enjoyed the section about how thoughts and imagination affect our brain and the notion that what is in our mind is often the creation of our imagination. I also enjoyed the effort and the passion put by the author in providing an encouragement to take time, sit back and “train to feel better“. This could definitely have a benefit not only for our inner selves, but also for our relationships at work, within the project teams (where we know that pressure can be high). I liked the message about taking time to train the mind, the encouragement to take time to refocus the attention toward what is going on, to be curious about our feelings: “Developing these qualities will texture and colour your consciousness – and may well change your brain”. Is this really possible??
Embracing Complexity: Strategic Perspectives for an Age of Turbulence

This book is a serious dive into the world of complexity, written by three internationally recognised academics and practitioners. The book is divided in two parts. The first part provides guidance in understanding about nature of complexity and its manifestation. There is also an historical perspective on how the concept of complexity has evolved. The second part is looking at applications of complexity thinking to a number of domains (management, strategy, economical studies and international development).
It is a book about a new view on how the world works (the ‘complexity worldview’, in the authors’ words) and with a challenge to the expectations for a complete control, which is impossible. It is not a guide, but just an invitation to start looking at the world in this new way.
Why this one?
The reading of this book has been inspired by the interview with another of the PMDG blog’s kind contributors, Greg Lawton. Although the book might be for those with a specific interest in complexity studies, the subject of complexity should be familiar to all involved in project management and planning. This book is really highly recommended.
According to the authors, “uncertainty is here to stay.[..].. uncertainty is the unknown unknown while risk is about known unknown for which variables and mechanisms can be well defined”. As Greg said in his interview about risk estimation in projects: “… [complexity] should direct our efforts (and those of the Project Managers) regarding which solutions offer the greatest opportunity for improvement. There is a fundamental shift from concentrating on probability to focusing on impact”. This book will help in viewing projects and project risk management under a different light.
My favourite bit..
It has to be the chapter looking at the characteristics of complex system using as an example the lifecycle of a forest. All the characteristics of a complex system come easily to your mind. The examples of application to various sectors (finance, international development etc) are also key to help the translation of important (but otherwise too theoretical) concepts into practical domains to which the readers can relate.
What is LEAN SIX SIGMA?

This small book is intended to provide an introduction to the ‘Lean Six Sigma’ methodology and can provide an answers to many of the questions from the readers who are not familiar with the methodology. The book is not intended to be a reference manual, but just a guidance, with explanation of basic terminology and concepts of the ‘lean’ foundation and also examples of applications to various industries. In the words of the authors, Lean Six Sigma can be seen just as an improvement method for manufacturing, but can also be seen as an organisation-wide engine for improvement, reaching out to roles and procedures – “it could act as a broader framework of meeting a company’s goals and customer needs“.
Why this one?
I have already written an article on the PMDG blog about ‘lean’ and project management. As said in that article, the ‘lean’ paradigm has expanded beyond the manufacturing sector and it is being slowly permeating in many other sectors. I think that a ‘lean thinking’ would help project management and this book is excellent in helping those who do not know much about ‘lean’. The author has organised concepts in a nice order, providing a comprehensive view of the entire process.
My favourite bit..
It has to be the presentation of the DMAIC process. This is the “Define>Measure>Analyse>Improve>Control” process, the “structured, data-based problem-solving process” sitting at the core of “lean”. The authors guide the readers hand in hand along the process, providing also very clear examples of the methodologies at disposal. It is a small book that goes a long way…
Marco Bottacini, Senior Portfolio Manager at GALVmed
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